When we were doing sociology, we come across this question: are there any difference between women 50years ago and now?! The typical answer would be YES, like duh! Women in the past received lesser education and many of them got married young! The only duty as a human on earth would be to give birth and take care of the family, ie housewife!
So what about us right now? We received alot more education, we are capable of doing more things, and yet we are still stuck in the topic of marriage! We have to starts thinking about marriage as early as now( at least for me), it is all due to the society. The society is shaped in such a way that women should get married before 30, preferably, if not words will starts going around, from relatives, family and etc!
Roarr. For me, I want to get married young, preferably at 25! To do so, yes I must find someone who is financially stable. But that does not mean I want to depend on him financially okay! I will still go to work and support myself financially! The reasons for marrying young are that, one, pressure from the society; second, I want to focus on my career fully after marriage! At the same time, have someone to depend on when I'm down( stress from work)!
This was my plan, and I should perhaps stick to it! Stop changing! It's not good! Haha
HP
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